The capacity for hope is the most significant fact of life. It provides human beings with a sense of destination and the energy to get started. – Norman Cousins I have ALS and expect to somehow heal from this disease. … Read More
Question for Bernie: I am in the process of following my heart and passion in my work area and leaving a job that was just that—a job. Any thoughts on how to “know” I am doing the right thing? It … Read More
Question for Bernie: I am so relieved that you are available for a question!! My husband is very ill but has always been a fighter and has frequently surprised his doctors over the years by overcoming when they had given … Read More
Question (An update from April 2, 2012): Dear CD (Chosen Dad), I have now learned that the cancer is metastatic to the spine, so Stage 4, with a prognosis of 2-3 years. It is like I am watching myself from … Read More
Question for Bernie: I am a trainee paramedic, a calling I love dearly. From time to time we are placed in very stressful situations where any wrong move could cost a life. How do you advise that one can keep … Read More
Question for Bernie: I have OCD and am struggling. I currently see an experienced and excellent therapist, but as you know, progress can be slow. I have been married for 20 years and have two children, 18 and 16. I … Read More
Question for Bernie: I have Stage 4 lung cancer which has spread to my lymph nodes. I was told it is inoperable and the cancer is terminal. I had radiotherapy for thirteen 20-minute sessions. I planned to pray during this … Read More
This week I thought about some of the questions that patients have asked me over the years. Because these questions have come up so often in one form or another, I thought you would enjoy seeing how I think sages … Read More
Question for Bernie: I have dealt with agoraphobia for years. I was in remission, but several years ago it came back. I grew up with a mother who had many health issues and was in constant fear of dying. Now … Read More
[Note: In the story that follows, Cameron is not the name of the patient. Other identifying details have been changed in order to protect privacy.] On Thursday, Cameron, a colon cancer patient, came into my office for the fourth psychotherapy … Read More