Q & A with Bernie – May 21, 2012
Question for Bernie: I am in the process of following my heart and passion in my work area and leaving a job that was just that—a job. Any thoughts on how to “know” I am doing the right thing? It … Read More
Question for Bernie: I am in the process of following my heart and passion in my work area and leaving a job that was just that—a job. Any thoughts on how to “know” I am doing the right thing? It … Read More
Question for Bernie: I am so relieved that you are available for a question!! My husband is very ill but has always been a fighter and has frequently surprised his doctors over the years by overcoming when they had given … Read More
Question (An update from April 2, 2012): Dear CD (Chosen Dad), I have now learned that the cancer is metastatic to the spine, so Stage 4, with a prognosis of 2-3 years. It is like I am watching myself from … Read More
Question for Bernie: I am a trainee paramedic, a calling I love dearly. From time to time we are placed in very stressful situations where any wrong move could cost a life. How do you advise that one can keep … Read More
Question for Bernie: I have OCD and am struggling. I currently see an experienced and excellent therapist, but as you know, progress can be slow. I have been married for 20 years and have two children, 18 and 16. I … Read More
Question for Bernie: I have Stage 4 lung cancer which has spread to my lymph nodes. I was told it is inoperable and the cancer is terminal. I had radiotherapy for thirteen 20-minute sessions. I planned to pray during this … Read More
This week I thought about some of the questions that patients have asked me over the years. Because these questions have come up so often in one form or another, I thought you would enjoy seeing how I think sages … Read More
Question for Bernie: I have dealt with agoraphobia for years. I was in remission, but several years ago it came back. I grew up with a mother who had many health issues and was in constant fear of dying. Now … Read More
[Note: In the story that follows, Cameron is not the name of the patient. Other identifying details have been changed in order to protect privacy.] On Thursday, Cameron, a colon cancer patient, came into my office for the fourth psychotherapy … Read More
Question for Bernie: I’m going through treatment for breast cancer. Being stuck at home while in treatment can be lonely and depressing, especially when one is used to working and being fairly active. What suggestions do you have for entertaining … Read More